After a breakup a girl often spends many hours wondering, “Can I get my ex boyfriend back?” No two relationships are exactly the same, so no two breakups will be the same. But there are some things you can to do help get him back that will be applicable in almost all situations. Three of these are: Be nice, accept responsibility for your part of the breakup and be honest.
1-Be nice- To say that one should be nice when trying to get an ex back really seems too simple. As your mother told you, you should always “be nice.” But a lot of people don’t follow that advice and seem to think the best way to get what they want is by exhibiting bad behaviors such a
s nagging, whining, and complaining.If these are the tactics you have used or thought about using to get an ex back, you are doomed to failure. These behaviors do nothing but remind him of things he wanted to get away from. The last thing you want is to drive him further away. Be as pleasant as you possibly can whenever you are around him.
Get your boyfriend back.
As you become a more pleasant person, whatever problems caused the break-up probably won’t seem nearl
y as important now. In fact, you may wonder why you weren’t more pleasant when you were together.
y as important now. In fact, you may wonder why you weren’t more pleasant when you were together.2- Accept responsibility for your part in the breakup
You can’t change the past, but you can keep from repeating it. If you know what made him break up, then apologize for it and if you do get back together, don’t let the same thing happen again. For example, if he felt that you took him for granted then acknowledge that you did and are sorry. Truth is, he probably took you for granted, too, but that doesn’t need to be brought up. Some things are better left unsaid.
You can’t change the past, but you can keep from repeating it. If you know what made him break up, then apologize for it and if you do get back together, don’t let the same thing happen again. For example, if he felt that you took him for granted then acknowledge that you did and are sorry. Truth is, he probably took you for granted, too, but that doesn’t need to be brought up. Some things are better left unsaid.
3-Be honest
Sometimes girls try to get an ex boyfriend back by pretending to be what they think he wants in a girlfriend. If that is the case why would you want him back. You would be much better off finding someone who doesn’t make you feel the need to pretend.
Sometimes girls try to get an ex boyfriend back by pretending to be what they think he wants in a girlfriend. If that is the case why would you want him back. You would be much better off finding someone who doesn’t make you feel the need to pretend.
Forget using any kind of deception, even if it seems harmless. Even the most seemingly innocent lie or exaggeration you tell could backfire later. What’s to be gained if you win him back through some trickery and he learns of your dishonesty and dumps you again?
Some girls think the best way to get an ex boyfriend back is to make him jealous. This, too, can backfire on you because he may think you are over the breakup and have moved on. Also, if the only reason you are thinking about going out with someone is to make your ex jealous, then you certainly aren’t being honest with either guy. Game playing rarely works when trying to get an ex boyfriend back. You will stand a better chance of achieving your goal if you are honest with yourself and other.
Some girls think the best way to get an ex boyfriend back is to make him jealous. This, too, can backfire on you because he may think you are over the breakup and have moved on. Also, if the only reason you are thinking about going out with someone is to make your ex jealous, then you certainly aren’t being honest with either guy. Game playing rarely works when trying to get an ex boyfriend back. You will stand a better chance of achieving your goal if you are honest with yourself and other.
If he has moved on and has a new girlfriend the task of getting him back becomes more difficult. First of all, it’s hard for you to be alone with him if he has someone else. He now focused on the new relationship. Second, you are now a part of the past and are no longer a priority in his life.
When you do see him you have to show just how nice you are and what he’s missing by not having you in his life.
These simple steps will help you as you start thinking about positive things you can do if you are heartbroken and want to get an ex boyfriend back. For more on Win back lost love
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