Boyfriend Break Up Is It Possible to Get Ex Back

Winning Love Back

If your boyfriend broke up with you this is undoubtedly one of the worst times in your life. If there had been no previous serious problems you are probably confused over what happened. That confusion combined with the hurt you are likely feeling can be totally devastating. At this point your thoughts may center around what caused your boyfriend to break up with you.

Don’t spend too much time on introspection. If your boyfriend broke up with you he had his own issues. How often guys say in the process of breaking up-“it’s not you; it’s me.” Rather look at yourself, where you are in your life and where you want to go.

You may think the relationship is worth reviving and you spend time trying to figure out how to get your ex back. If you decide to go down this road the following things will be helpful:

Don’t pester him-I know this is hard advice to swallow, but face the facts; he broke up with you which means he doesn’t want to be around you at this time. Trying to contact him numerous times each day is not the way to get him back.

It’s okay to flirt with other guys when your ex is around. This may be the point where he realizes he wants you back.
If you do get back together for a “trial date” be friendly and polite but don’t pressure him about picking up where you left off.

Sometimes you just know that when your boyfriend breaks up with you that it’s final; the relationship cannot be restored. Family and friends may try to console you by making you think you can get back together, but that feeling in the pit of your stomach is telling you otherwise. When this happens you know that it’s time to put that relationship in the past and start moving on.

Moving on is hard to do and the more time you were together the harder it will probably me. Look at the relationship as objectively as you can. Remember the bad parts of it as well as the good. If you were guilty of causing the bad times, use this time to try to make improvements in yourself so that this won’t be repeated in the next relationship.

For example, were you overly jealous of the time he spent with his guy friends?
You need to bring closure in your mind to the relationship. Remove anything from your home that reminds you of him. If he has anything in your home that he values return those items to him. If he has anything of yours that you want ask him to get that to you. If you can meet to exchange these items, that will be good. If not, do it by mail.

Having a boyfriend break up with you is a terrible experience, but even though you may feel like it, it isn’t the end of your life. If you think you have a chance of winning him back and that’s what you really want, then do whatever you can to try to get back together. If your relationship was true love it will survive a boyfriend breakup.

If your efforts to get him back are not successful you should not think that all the doors are shut and you will never meet anyone else. Once you are completely sure the breakup is final you can then begin anticipating meeting your true soul mate. For more…